Reclaiming Our Children: A Blog About Healing After Abortion

It certainly is all over the place with all of its complications…the following scenario  is not uncommon..most relationships end after abortion, or if they do continue, it is often because it is a tie to the baby…

Abortion – Post Abortion Complications

Question
Hi,
My girlfriend had an abortion  at 20 yrs, well on mutual agreement. we
were in different countries at the time of the agreement and also
during the procedure. After the procedure i called her over the phone
she talked and she said we will talk more when we meet. i got back in
her country a week later. I went to see her, she was OK and when I
asked about the process she talked about it and i was able to comfort
her. from then a two days later when i went to see her she started
rejecting me. Obviously she was regretting the whole thing she just got
into. i tried talking about it and she said she doesn't wanna talk
about it. i left her and called her in the evening and she never picked
up the phone. the following day i went to see her she asked me to give
her space. I did give her space for a week. during this time i kept in
contact by emails and SMSs. after a week she said she still need more
space. two months down the line she blamed me for not being there. we
talked and i thought everything was fine. she insisted that we dont
talk about it.

finally she started rejecting any touch from me. i have never got more
intimate more just a simple kiss after the her pregnancy. now its
almost 8 months and it has gone to a point where she says my presence
makes her not to move on.

i love her and i wanted to move on together. now it hurts that my
presence is hurting her. i dont know what to do. i clearly didnt do
things right. i want to marry her. what do i do?

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