Came across this blog post on abortion and anniversary dates. We have all been there. It is a classic abortion connector. Wish I could get our "Connecting the Dots" pamphlet to her…she is so right, he is not "just a memory" and there is something missing…that "something" is her son and she needs to grieve

Not Just A Memory

This morning I woke up thinking about Robinson and the abortion. It seems like no matter how much I’ve made peace with myself about it, this month always seems to be the hardest for me. Because it reminds me of what was and what could’ve been.

I’ve run into some complications with my cervical cancer and may not be able to have children in the future. And everyone and their mother knows that when and if I get married in the future, I want to have at least one more baby. And knowing that I may not have that in the future, is pretty devastating for me.

http://withoutababe.wordpress.com/2012/05/05/not-just-a-memory/